Favor and Disgrace by Lao Tzu

In Lao Tzu's rendering addressing favor and disgrace a person is able to evaluate themselves. As a meditative poem with many explanations the overall meaning applies to everyone's life when evaluating criticism. The message appears clear, yet reading at various times in my life, the connotation changes though still pertinent.

Largely dealing with public opinion and making decisions, there are several tiers to clarify the main point, which is to remain calm and not allow people to dictate the value of a person's life. Each tier further explains various aspects similarly to a person answering questions. As a poem in the first part of the book it is also a catalyst for several poems.

Favor and Disgrace are equally alarming.
Both are based on the opinion of others.
Neither one is based on your inherent worth.

Acknowledging both favor and disgrace are alarming there is also a separation between public opinion and inherent worth. While public opinion has an impact on success it is important to separate personal worth, intelligence, skill and multiple facets of a person's value in comparison to criticism.

Success is not a reward.
Failure is not a punishment.

When meditating on these two sentences positive and negative examples of success and failure surface. Someone might pander to the wealthy to gain reward or find a method to contribute to society in a way that generates measurable success. Someone might fail when others uncover deception or go against popular opinion for virtuous reasons. Therefore, success and failure do not reflect on individuals or their value.

Those who remain themselves
In hope and in despair,
Are fit to have all of heaven and earth
Entrusted to their care.

Like warriors fighting for a cause when finding answers or actions are incorrect some might continue acting against what they feel is correct. Perhaps they theorize it is better for everyone to believe they are acting correctly. This is a justification because they fear public opinion. They will not admit to wrongdoing. Either way, they continue to act against what they know is right. Those who are free from fearing criticism modify actions to what they know is right and are able to live freely knowing they are living to their fullest capacity.

Someone might understand think this supports a contrarian stance. Being yourself does not equate to arguing. Powerful messages within text involve strategy and hope. Strategically fearing public opinion is faulty and accepting new information assists in forming better plans. Recognizing success and failure do not measure a person's worth gives hope when striving to reach personal and financial goals. In essence, continue working through hard times until reaping the benefits of hard work and dedication. Hope also allows everyone to have greater empathy towards each other.

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